Choices

I am one of the most indecisive people I know, in fact, it’s so bad that the only thing I am decided about is being undecided. I have however learnt through the years that not making a choice when you need to is also a choice, for it could mean seizing an opportunity there and then or missing it, determining life and death for someone else or even yourself, walking away from a bad relationship or staying in a good one. Not only is it important to make the right decisions but depending on the nature of the decision more often than not your timing for that decision has to be right, that or life will decide for you. How you will decide to deal with the consequences is also another issue. This is the reason why the exact thing can happen to two different people but can mold one and destroy the other.

My hope is that you make the right choices in life, whether it be to change a job, exercise, study, eat healthy or people that influence your life somehow but if not I hope you will have the grace to deal with the consequences and to choose to have a good attitude dealing with whatever life throws at you for sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places. If you wish for something to change make a different choice.